Stepping into 2025: Reflections, Intentions, and Building the Year You Deserve
Y’all, 2025 is knocking at the door, and it’s not just another year. It’s the year. The year I turn 30. Yup, 30. And it feels like a whole vibe. There’s excitement, there’s reflection, and there’s a deep sense of pride in how far I’ve come. Let’s talk about it.
2024 was messy in the best ways possible. It was full of growth, uncertainty, and the kind of change that makes you uncomfortable but also makes you stronger. If you’ve been following along, you know I’ve been doing the work—mentally, emotionally, and in business—and I’m proud of the woman I’m becoming. It’s been a year of leaning into discomfort, setting boundaries, and saying “yes” to more of what aligns with the life I actually want, not the one I thought I was supposed to have.
Reflecting on 2024: The Wins, the Lessons, and the Growth
Okay, 2024—you showed up and surprised me. At the beginning of the year, I had it all figured out, I was supposed to walk the stage and get my masters degree and then jump the broom and have this nice wedding (ummmm, more on this later). Looking back, I’m honestly grateful for every challenge, every lesson, and every little win. I did things I once thought were out of my reach, and I’m not talking about just the “big stuff” like:
Graduating with my master’s degree (YES, I did that!)
Building my community of first-gen folks (I’m officially not alone, and that feels so damn good)
Starting a blog (and it’s actually getting read—dafuqqqqwhat??)
Finally starting to show up for myself, even when it was hard
But you know what? It wasn’t about checking things off a list. It was about growth. I’ve learned more about patience, resilience, and the beauty of embracing the messy middle. I’m proud of the woman I’ve become, and I’m not done yet. In fact, I’m just getting started.
Entering 30: A Year of Intentionality
So, 30. I’ve been waiting for this moment. But instead of feeling overwhelmed by the weight of it, I’m excited. I’m excited because I’m stepping into a new decade with lessons from my twenties under my belt. I’m not running from the past; I’m bringing it with me as fuel for the future.
This year, I’m not setting some rigid list of resolutions. What do we call that? Growth. This is about intentions. It’s about feeling into the year, checking in with myself, and setting the tone for what’s to come. My number one intention for 2025? To be grounded, to trust my decisions, and to create a year that aligns with who I am right now, not who I thought I should be.
Here’s what I’m doing:
Locking in with God. I’m starting the year with a fast to realign my spirit, focus my mind, and let God order my steps. I ordered a new bible which is nice and had chatgpt create a plan for me based on what I am experiencing and want to learn. If you’re looking for a new bible check this one out.
Creating balance. This has been one of my biggest lessons this year. I used to think I had to either grind until burnout or rest too much and feel stuck. But now, I’m embracing the art of balance. Resting and working are both necessary, and I’m learning how to give myself permission to do both.
30 is about stepping into the fullness of who I am—without apology—and being okay with the fact that I don’t have it all figured out. And guess what? That’s okay.
Building Habits That Create Change: How my Planners Keep Me On Track (And Look Good Doing It)
If there’s one thing I know for sure, it’s that big transformations come from small, everyday habits. Last year, I proved to myself that showing up for myself doesn’t need to be a huge, dramatic thing. It’s in the little details. So this year, I’m leaning into a few things that keep me grounded, organized, and feeling my best. Planners have been a game changer for me. You know I love to keep my life organized, but it’s not just about getting things done. It’s about nurturing my body, mind, and soul in the process. That’s why I created a 2025 Digital Planner and a Self-Care Planner , and let me tell you, they’re not just about schedules—they’re about making sure I show up for myself, inside and out. I used to be a girl who grabbed every pretty planner I seen but would not stick to them, I created a digital planner that can work for me. I use it on my iPAD and have it accessible on my phone for a nice reminder.
They’re not just planners—they’re your guide to staying intentional, focused, and aligned with your goals.
Daily, weekly, and monthly layouts to help you manage your time.
Self-care trackers for everything from skincare to affirmations. I’m talking about hair calendars, product lists, and skin habit trackers.
Budget sheets to keep your finances on track (because yes, we’re leveling up in all areas)
I started using these planners in 2024, and I’ve seen real progress. I look back now, and I can see that I had more good days than bad. I tracked my moods, and when I went through the sheets in my planner, especially the mood tracker and monthly log—I noticed something powerful. More of my days were highlighted in pink (good vibes) than blue (those low energy moments). That’s what it’s all about, y’all. It’s easy to get caught up in New Year’s resolutions and focus on what we didn’t do, but we’ve gotta remember to celebrate what we DID do. We had fun, we grew, and we’re better than we were at the start of the year.
Here’s how I’m using my planner this year:
Taking care of my skin & hair. Yeah, I’m talking about feeling good. I’m keeping my self-care rituals strong. Taking care of my skin and hair isn’t just about looking good—it’s about FEELING good. Because when I look in the mirror and see my best self, it gives me that energy to show up as my best self in the world.
Tracking my wins. I’m journaling, logging my wins, and staying present. This year, I’m all about recognizing the good in every day. No more waiting for the "big wins" to feel like I’ve accomplished something. I’m journaling, logging those little moments, and staying present. The more I focus on the good, the more good I see. It’s all about shifting your mindset, and these planners make that shift easier.
Staying intentional with my time. Time is my most precious resource, and I’m getting intentional about how I use it. No more wasting time on things or people that don’t align with my vision.Time is everything. I’m learning how precious it is and how to use it wisely. Gone are the days of wasting time on things or people that don’t align with my vision. When I use my planners, I feel like my time is more intentional, and I’m not just running through the motions. The stress is reduced, and my brain is finally clear. I get stuff done and actually enjoy it.
Building the life I want. The journal has space for a vision board and inspirations, I’m using visualization techniques by clipping my pinterest inspo into those pages to help me go after what I want.
These might seem small, but trust me—they add up. And when things feel chaotic, these habits help me stay grounded. I made these planners for me because I wanted something that helped me keep track of the day-to-day while staying aligned with my bigger goals. But after seeing the impact they’ve had, I want to share them with you. I genuinely believe these planners can help you be more intentional with your time, track your wins, and take care of yourself in the process. It’s all about creating the space for balance, growth, and joy.
So, if you’re ready to make 2025 the year you show up for yourself every day, my planners are here to help you get there. It’s not about perfection—it’s about progress. Let’s track our wins, keep our beauty rituals on point, and make sure we’re using our time wisely, together.
A Challenge for You: Start Your Year with Intention
I want you to start 2025 differently. Let’s set intentions, not just goals. Instead of running to the gym on January 1st and trying to check every box, let’s do something that feels good. Reflect on 2024—what did you learn? What are you proud of? Then, set your intentions. How do you want to feel this year? Heavy on the FEEEL! What habits will help you get there?
I’m doing a challenge with myself and I want you to join me. Let’s keep each other accountable in making 2025 the year we build the life we deserve. This is about progress, not perfection. We’ve got this.
Here’s to Us: A Year of Growth and Gratitude
2025 is my year, and I know it’s yours too. But it’s not about chasing perfection. It’s about celebrating our wins, no matter how small, and being open to the fact that what we wanted yesterday might not be what we need today—and that’s okay.
I’m proud of where I’ve come, and I’m excited about where I’m going. Here’s to a year of growth, gratitude, and doing the work—together.
Ready to step into 2025 with intention? Join me in this challenge, and let’s build a year of growth, abundance, and self-love. I’ve got the tools to help you get there. Let’s do this.
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Love y’all. See y’all in the New Year
